As pastors and ministry leaders, we are often called to deliver difficult messages – words that challenge, convict, and sometimes unsettle those we serve. Like Jonah, who was called by God to bring a hard message to the people of Nineveh, we too are tasked with messages that require courage and confidence of God’s presence within us. Jonah’s story offers us powerful inspiration: it reminds us that even when the message is hard, and even when we resist or struggle, God’s grace can work through us to bring transformation and new life.

The story of Jonah is one of those stories. It’s a tale that can easily be misunderstood if we get stuck trying to prove whether it’s historical fact or simply a parable. What if, instead, we embrace it as a beautiful myth meant to reveal something deeper about God, ourselves, and the way God’s love moves in the world?

Jonah is far from a perfect prophet. He’s a complainer, a whiner, someone who runs from God’s call to preach repentance to the hated Assyrians in Nineveh, the brutal empire that threatened his own people. He tries to escape, sailing in the opposite direction, only to be swallowed by a great fish and thrown back on God’s path.

Jonah’s story reminds us that even when the message is hard, and even when we resist or struggle, God’s grace can work through us to bring transformation and new life.

But the heart of the story isn’t about the fish or whether Jonah’s adventure was literally true. It’s about the grace that extends even to those we least expect or want to love. The Assyrians – the “worst of the worst” – repent after Jonah’s brief and seemingly ineffective warning, and God relents from destruction. Yet Jonah is furious that God would forgive his enemies.

This tension is the heart of the message for ministry leaders: the struggle to preach a gospel of radical grace and mercy, especially when it clashes with our own desires for justice, retribution, or simple human judgment.

Jonah knew God to be gracious, compassionate, slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love, and ready to relent from sending calamity. But accepting that God’s love might extend even to those we dislike or fear – that’s hard. It can stir up anger, confusion, and resistance in us, just as it did in Jonah.

In ministry, we often face individuals wrestling with these same tensions – people who want God to be a God of wrath rather than love, a God who punishes rather than forgives. And it can be exhausting to proclaim a message of grace when it feels like it meets resistance or misunderstanding.

This tension is the heart of the message for ministry leaders: the struggle to preach a gospel of radical grace, especially when it clashes with our own desires for justice, retribution, or simple human judgment.

But here’s what Jonah’s story invites us to remember:

  • Compassion and grace transcend boundaries. God’s concern is not just for the “in-group,” but for all people, even those we consider outsiders, enemies, or unworthy. If God shows mercy to the Ninevites, can we not extend that same grace in our lives? Ministry calls us to model the God who loves unconditionally.

  • God’s love is transformational. Even when we hit our lowest points, God offers a new life, a resurrection, a second chance. This is the hope we preach.

  • Preaching hard truths requires courage and vulnerability. Jonah’s sermon in Nineveh was brief and blunt, yet it sparked real repentance. Sometimes our hardest messages are the ones that bear fruit, even if they are imperfectly delivered.

  • God invites us into dialogue, not condemnation. When Jonah is angry, God asks, “Is it right for you to be angry?” This gentle invitation models how we can bring our doubts, anger, and questions before God and our communities without shutting down.

So when you find yourself wrestling with hard messages, when preaching grace feels like walking a tightrope between truth and love, remember Jonah’s journey. It’s okay to feel conflicted, to question, even to resist. But let God’s story remind you of the abundant mercy that calls us all toward compassion and new life.

In a world full of division, judgment, and pain, God continues to work through your ministry to bring a message of grace and hope. Keep preaching that hope, keep loving fiercely, and keep trusting that even when the story seems impossible, God is at work bringing life out of death.

(This blog was curated from the episode “Jonah and Missing the Point” from Pastor Jay’s podcast, The Good Courage Podcast. For more, visit this podcast episode: Jonah and Missing the Point).